Being in a relationship can be one of the most rewarding yet challenging things you do in your life. There’s nothing like growing together as couple and learning what it really means to love each other.
While no relationship is perfect, remembering to say these six things each day will make you a better, more considerate partner.
6. “Thank you.”
We always seem to remember our manners when we get a birthday or anniversary gift, but what about the little things? When your boyfriend or girlfriend stopped by the store to get you more eggs or juice, or they remembered to close the lid on the toothpaste, did you thank them?
They don’t have to do those small things for you, but they knew it would make you happy, so thank them and let them know you appreciate those small considerate gestures.
5. “I’m sorry.”
In every relationship, disagreements are going to happen at some point, and when they do, it’s important to be able to say you’re sorry. You hopefully won’t have to say you’re sorry literally everyday, but the point is that when disagreements do happen, you remember to swallow your pride and apologize when you accidentally hurt your partner.
Being able to apologize shows your partner that you recognize you did something wrong, and and will work to make things right.
4. “You look very nice today”
A small compliment like this might not feel like a big deal, but it will give your partner a boost of confidence, and make them feel appreciated. Often times, we frequently tell our partners how nice they look in the beginning of the relationship, but gradually we forget to compliment each other.
Complementing your boyfriend or girlfriend on how they look, will let them know you’re still attracted to each other even after all that time.
3. “I miss you.”
Whenever you miss your partner, you should let them know by telling them. These three words will make your partner feel wanted and appreciated when you notice how their absence effects you.
2. “I was thinking about you.”
One thing being in a long-distance relationship has taught me is that being told ‘I was thinking about you,’ or ‘[something] reminded me of you’ can be even more moving than being told that I’m missed.
Saying that you were thinking of your partner shows them that they are so much a part of your life that they are on your mind even when you aren’t physically together.
1. “I love you.”
The top thing you should be telling your partner everyday is ‘I love you.’ However, I want to make it clear that you shouldn’t just say the words everyday, you should mean it everyday.
Saying those words too often, in moments where it feels like an obligation, will rob the words of their meaning, and make it feel insincere. (Think about how the words ‘I’m sorry’ have a totally different effect depending on if you actually mean it.)
Instead, look for moments to say those words each day when you’re reminded of why you actually love your partner like when they make you burst out laughing.
Do you tell your boyfriend or girlfriend these things everyday? Share with us in the comments below.
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